Dating coach Jake Maddock shares what you should do if someone you like stops texting you

The real reason why men are ‘ghosts’ after sex on the first date is revealed by a controversial dating coach who explains exactly what to do when they stop texting

  • Dating coach says ‘keep going’ when someone stops texting
  • He said that “lady men” lose interest after sleeping with someone

A controversial dating coach has offered his simple advice on what to do when someone you’re interested in stops messaging you.

Relationship expert Jake Maddock said you should just “move on” if a person you’ve been sleeping with stops responding to messages.

He also claimed that “lady men” will lose interest in a woman if they are intimate with them on the first date.

“He stopped texting me after we slept together, what should I do now?” a follower asked Jake.

‘What can you do? You can send a message, he won’t respond, go on,” he replied.

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Dating coach Jake Maddock (pictured) has caused a stir by claiming that only ‘feminine men’ lose interest in a woman after sleeping with her on a first date

In another video on his popular social media channels, Jake, who is married, claimed that “masculine men” will not lose interest in a woman after having sex with them on the first date.

“Many guys have told me that if I actually slept with them the first night, they would never have been interested after that,” one fan commented on one of Jake’s videos.

“A feminine man would think less of you, a masculine man wouldn’t,” he replied.

However, some viewers disagreed with Jake’s hot opinion, with one calling his advice “bullshit.”

100 percent wrong. Guys tend to lose interest if they get on the girl too easily,” one person wrote.

Sod that, they leave when they got what they wanted. I don’t buy a sweater without trying it on, so that also stands for boys,” said a second.

“I don’t believe this is always true. It’s a generational thing,” added a third.

“He stopped texting me after we slept together, what should I do now?”  a follower asked Jake

'What can you do?  You can send a message, he won't respond, go on,

Jake also gave some simple advice to a follower who asked what to do after her love interest stopped responding to her messages: “Move on!”

“Guys acting like a girl are low value to give away on the first date… dude, you were there too!” said a woman.

“Guys need to learn the difference between masculinity and a**hole,” another joked.

Others share their stories and opinions about sleeping with someone on a first date.

“I think it just depends on the people. 60 percent of marriages are the result of a one-night stand, so there’s something in it,” one viewer responded.

“The first night of sleeping together is just the first conversation. Got a call back and congratulations on the second date, you are now through to the second interview,” said another.

“I slept with my husband on the first date and we’ve been together for 12 years and married for six,” one woman explained.

“If they want you, they’ll commit, if they don’t, they won’t. If you choose to wait and they respect that’s cool. If they don’t, they aren’t for you. I don’t know why it’s a problem.’