Dating coach reveals the top ten signs your relationship is over: ‘If you don’t get intimate, it’s time to leave’
- Jake Maddock shared relationship red flags
- Says being able to live without someone is a reason to leave
A controversial dating coach has revealed that not wanting to have sex with your partner is one of the top ten “red flags” for a relationship.
Self-described relationship expert Jake Maddock says poor communication, a lack of chemistry, and different life goals are some of the main signs that you need to end things.
He also claimed that a “general lack of effort” and “not being able to get your needs met” are also among the reasons for ending things.
“A lot of you miss the red flags,” Jake, who is married, explained in a video.
Explaining the first reason for breaking things up, Jake said you should end things with a partner if “he’s a really bad communicator.”
“No matter how hard you try, communication just doesn’t work. That’s a big red flag. He won’t last 20 years. It’s time to go,” Jake said.
Then Jake explains that a lack of chemistry, or “puzzle pieces that don’t fit together” is another reason for a romance to end.
‘As the pieces don’t fit, they don’t fit, get out of there,’ he explained.
Third, Jake complains about a “general lack of effort” from men in relationships.
Relationship expert Jake Maddock said poor communication, a lack of chemistry and different life goals are among the 10 signs you should end things with your significant other
“If someone doesn’t want to make an effort to really get the relationship going and wants to put some effort into the relationship because they care about you, you can’t force them,” he explained.
‘They are not your slave. It’s time to get out of there.’.
The expert also explained that different life goals can be a huge problem.
“If you want to have babies and your partner doesn’t want babies, that’s a big deal.”
He added that ‘just not being able to do the job’ was another reason for leaving.
“You have to find out exactly what you need.
“Okay, suppose you need someone to be home every night. You won’t get along with a man who flies in and out and works outside the home, you only see them once a month.
‘It’s just not going to work’
Another reason to end a relationship is if your partner “lacks integrity,” while the sixth is a “lack of ambition.”
‘If you’re really ambitious, have a lot of goals, you’re a real go-getter. You can’t be with someone who’s the opposite,” he continued.
Jake also explained that those in a “healthy relationship” are constantly improving, while those in a toxic relationship are “getting worse.”
He added that another “pretty bad” red flag is someone who “doesn’t care about protecting your relationship.”
“If they’re hanging out with best friends and exes and all those people they claim they don’t have to worry about.
“They’re not protecting the relationship and that’s a pretty bad sign.
“It’s a set-up to fail.”
The number one reason to leave someone is if they “can live without you,” says Jake
Finally, Jake explained that the number one reason for leaving someone is so they can “live without you.”
“I know that sounds really weird, but if someone can live without you and they don’t have to be with you, they’re not your ideal partner,” he said.
“As weird as that sounds, your ideal partner should be with you. They will just have that deep longing that deep urge that I got to be with that person.
“They’ll think ‘they’re absolutely incredible. I need to be with them’.”
“As long as they don’t have to be with you. They are not the one’.