‘Dad jokes’ teach children to survive embarrassment, study finds
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Why ‘Daddy Jokes’ Are GOOD For You: Creepy Jokes Teach Kids To Survive Shyness, Study Finds
- Dad jokes are important for teaching children to be ashamed of parents
- This toughens them up because they realize that shame isn’t such a bad thing
Try not to roll your eyes at dad jokes – they can be an example of good parenting.
Dad jokes are important for teaching children to be ashamed of their parents, argues an expert researcher.
This toughens them up as they survive their father’s embarrassment making a terrible pun and realize that embarrassment isn’t so bad.
Marc Hye-Knudsen, humor researcher and lab manager at Aarhus University’s Cognition and Behavior Laboratory, writes for the British Psychological AssociationBy teasingly attacking their children’s egos and emotions without resorting to bullying, fathers build their children’s resilience and train them to withstand petty attacks and bouts of negative emotions without becoming agitated or into acting, and they learn impulse control and emotional regulation.
In light of this, it’s worth considering dad jokes as a pedagogical tool that can have a beneficial function for the kids who roll their eyes at them.
Dad jokes are important for helping kids feel ashamed of their parents, expert researcher argues (stock image)
“By constantly telling their kids jokes that are so bad they’re embarrassing, dads can push their kids’ limits on how much embarrassment they can handle.
“They show their kids that embarrassment doesn’t kill.”
Most dad jokes are puns, according to experts, and perfectly harmless puns at that.
At best, they elicit polite chuckles instead of actual laughter, and at worst, they make people moan and roll their eyes.
Hye-Knudsen says, “To all the dads who like to tell dad jokes to your kids, don’t let their moans, their eyes roll, or their palpable irritation stop you.
“You partake in a long and proud tradition, and your embarrassingly awful jokes may even do them good.
“Keep repeating the same old stale puns year after year.
“Through painful repetition, you experience the same old joke, go through waves of not being funny, and then so unfunny that it becomes funny.
“One day you may hear your children spontaneously tell the same joke, perhaps when they become parents themselves.
‘In any case, this is concrete proof that our input as parents does indeed have an impact.