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for 28 years emmy blaise and her husband Cal were ultra-conservative Christians who married at just 19 years old.
The couple, from the Hunter Valley region of New South Wales, grew up in the Pentecostal church which they say fosters a “culture of purity”.
Now, after leaving church behind, they make a living doing porn without the fear of being banned from heaven, and enjoy a “happy and healthy” open relationship.
For 28 years, Emmy Blaise and her husband Cal were perfect Christians of the most conservative kind after growing up in the Pentecostal church.
The couple married at the age of 19 (pictured), had no sex before marriage, and lived according to their community’s patriarchal law that establishes men as decision makers and women as their dutiful servants. .
Speaking to FEMAIL, the couple said they were born into a “religious sect” and never had the chance to form their own opinions about the world.
We didn’t even know we were part of a religion, that’s how deep we went. We were taught from birth that we had a relationship with Jesus,’ Emmy said.
They were not just members of the church, they were part of the inner circle and never made a false step for fear of the ‘wrath of God’ and the disapproval of others in the community.
“We make so many decisions that we wouldn’t have made if we knew otherwise,” Cal said.
These include getting married at 19, not having sex before marriage, and living by the patriarchal law of your community.
They weren’t just church members – they were part of the inner circle and never made a faux pas out of fear of ‘God’s wrath’ and disapproval from others in the community (depicted as teenagers)
‘In church women have to dress a certain way so as not to attract men. It’s up to them, not the men, to have self-control,” Emmy said.
“The sanctions reflected that if people were caught doing anything sexual outside of marriage, the woman would be shunned while the man would be allowed to take center stage in church productions.
‘We were also expected to give ten percent of our earnings to the church, otherwise we could no longer be blessed by God. We made some bad financial decisions that we’re still recovering from, like making those donations with our credit card.’
The couple even sold their house to join another church, but back then their faith was everything.
Then, in 2016, when they were 28, they bravely walked away from their community, packed up their lives (and their children) and headed inland to put distance between themselves and their religious connections.
They attended church five times a week and were heavily involved in the youth group, producing extravagant services, and faith-focused social activities.
Then in 2016, when they were 28 years old, something changed.
“Things were still not right with us and we wanted to find a purer way to follow God,” Cal said.
Their eldest son, who was two years old at the time, asked innocent questions that led them to question their long-held beliefs.
“He asked me questions I couldn’t answer, like if Jesus lives in his heart, then how does he breathe?” she said.
“We also looked at our children and we couldn’t imagine them being afraid of going to hell for doing something bad, we knew we didn’t want them to live like that, it didn’t feel nice.”
The couple now have three children under the age of 10, an open marriage, and a very lucrative OnlyFans account where they share X-rated videos with their followers.
They attended church five times a week and were heavily involved in the youth group, producing extravagant services, and faith-focused social activities.
So they bravely walked away from their community, packed up their lives and headed inland to put distance between themselves and their religious connections.
“Eventually we left the church thinking we were Christians but not knowing where we belonged,” Emmy said.
Within three years they had completely rejected the idea of God or ‘any other sky fairy’.
“We had this moment where we thought, you know, we don’t believe any of it is real… God… the bible,” Emmy said.
“We had just been taught not to think like that, not to listen to our instincts and blindly follow authority figures in the church.”
The couple now have three children under the age of 10, an open marriage, and a very lucrative OnlyFans account where they share X-rated videos with their followers.
“We had just been taught not to think like that, not to listen to our instincts and blindly follow authority figures in the church,” Emmy said.
“We don’t hide who we are, we’re open, we don’t force them down the throat either,” Emmy said.
They also have friends from their church days who have also drifted away and whom they can trust.
“Some of them aren’t comfortable with OnlyFans, but they are supportive,” Emmy said.
Most of their old community is still in the church and not a part of their lives.
“We don’t hide who we are, we’re open, we don’t force them either,” Emmy said.
They use pseudonyms to help take the pressure off their family dynamics.
The couple, who are still happily married but dating other people, are grateful that they were able to “grow up” together.
“When we got married, divorce was not an option, it was the worst thing you could do,” Emmy said.
“So when we walked out of the church, it was scary that it was a possibility, but we were able to take the big leap together,” he said.
“People message us and say they relate to our history because they were also raised in oppressive and conservative communities, not just Christian,” Emmy said.
They are united in their desire to explore their sexuality, exercise their ability to think freely, and raise their children with an emphasis on being kind rather than following any kind of dogmatic or fundamentalist principles.
“I found out since I got out of church that I’m pansexual,” Emmy said.
This means that she is attracted to ‘a person’ rather than her gender.
“It’s been a lot of fun helping her explore that,” Cal said.
The couple is in the top 0.5 percent of content creators on solofans despite only being on the site for a year.
“We talked and joked about it for a bit before that, but then we thought we’d do it,” said Emmy, who is a nurse by trade.
Now they do it full time and have been able to become financially secure.
“We hope to buy a family home within the next year and have undone the damage from our past financial mistakes,” Cal said.
The couple said the most amazing part of their content creation journey has been meeting people with similar stories.
“People message us and say they relate to our history because they were also raised in oppressive and conservative communities, not just Christian,” they said.