Controversy as man slams all men for answering one ‘relationship-killing’ question wrong: ‘Women won’t respect you afterwards’
A man has condemned all men for ‘killing the attraction’ in their relationships by telling their partners they ‘don’t know’ where they want to go or what they want to eat.
Kevinfrom Vancouver, claimed that answering the key question with “I don’t know” every time makes women feel tense and uncomfortable with their male partner.
“If your girlfriend asks where you want to go to dinner and you consistently say you don’t know, and you blame her for figuring it out, then you’re destroying the attraction and she’s probably not going to like you over time.” more respect,” he said. .
Kevin claimed that putting the responsibility for the decision on a woman puts her in her “masculine” energy, which is a “problem.”
“You should be the one to sort out the issues and guide her so she can be in her womanhood,” he said.
A man has criticized all men for ‘killing the attraction’ in their relationships by telling their partners they ‘don’t know’ where they want to go for dinner
“Keeping her safe in her feminine appearance means suggesting three places to eat and asking her what she thinks about them,” he said.
“If you ask about her feelings, she can tap into her feminine energy, figure out what she wants and tell you.”
He said that when a woman is in her feminine energy, she feels relaxed, safe and comfortable.
“She should know that you know how to solve problems and make decisions,” Kevin said.
Dating coach Jake Maddock claimed that men and women fulfilling their male and female roles will help them navigate their relationship efficiently.
Many women agreed with Kevin’s opinion and shared their own experiences.
“I’ve never been in my feminine energy and I’m 38,” one woman said.
“There’s nothing more tiring than constantly making decisions,” another added. ‘Deciding what we’re going to eat, where we’re going, whether he wants to go, the ‘Well, do you want to come?’, planning how and when, because often it doesn’t get done.’
‘The mental burden is heavy. My husband thinks he’s the man of the house, but I do all the thinking, planning and execution. I’m tired of being masculine,” said a third.
But others argued that the gender approach played into patriarchy.
‘No, thank you. There is no such thing. “We just want someone to join in and care enough to think about it and then we’ll make a decision together,” one person said.
‘I hate this feminine and masculine energy trend. I don’t need to be guided by a man,” wrote another.