My boyfriend got a login code from Tinder but claims he hasn’t used the app in years – I’m so confused
A woman has revealed her confusion and heartbreak after discovering a ‘worrying’ text message on her boyfriend’s phone.
The anonymous Australian noticed that her boyfriend was given a login code for Tinder, despite his claims that he has not used the dating app for years.
In a now-viral Facebook post, the distraught girlfriend revealed: ‘Okay, the tea is my boyfriend got this text message… I asked him about it and he says he hasn’t had the app in three years… .Thoughts?’
She included a photo of her partner’s phone receiving two Tinder login codes on Friday afternoon.
The cryptic text message immediately raised suspicion, dividing hundreds.
While some tried to offer possible explanations – suggesting it could be a mistake or an old account being reactivated – others were quick to point out that it was a warning sign.
She also mentioned that her boyfriend received an email from Tinder around the same time.
The situation took a heartbreaking turn in an update she shared just hours later: “Update – he admitted it after calling me crazy for an hour and making me feel legitimately psychotic and now I want to cry.”
A woman has revealed her confusion and heartbreak after discovering a ‘concerned’ text message on her boyfriend’s phone
Australian women have been struggling in the dating market for years – from seemingly ‘perfect’ men lying on dating apps to many facing aggressive tactics after polite rejections.
A French expat was also left feeling shocked and dejected by a ‘brazen’ act on her very first date in Australia.
The revelation that her boyfriend not only lied on the app, but also tried to convince her to doubt her instincts, has sparked widespread outrage online.
Many commentators have rallied to support her, urging her to prioritize her well-being and view the situation as a clear breach of trust.
“Sending love, take care,” one woman said.
“Please don’t be so delusional,” another added.
A few plausible theories shared before the update.
‘I received one for E-harmony including emails and I have NEVER used that app. So it is possible that someone is using his data,” one person wrote.
Australian women have been struggling in the dating market for years – from seemingly ‘perfect’ men lying on dating apps to many facing aggressive tactics after polite rejections
‘I ALWAYS get emails from Shein. Have I ever ordered from them? No. They’ve filled my calendar with these ‘events’ and I can’t make it stop. I looked for the option to unsubscribe but there isn’t one so I blocked the emails but they just keep coming,” said a second.
Others shared similar unfortunate stories.
“He’s lying – end of,” someone said.
“My ex did this, but it was in his emails and dated the day I went away for a week every month,” said another.
One woman wrote, “My ex said the same thing, and it wasn’t long before another girl messaged me with screenshots of his page with a photo I took of him.”
‘That’s how I caught my boyfriend on Tinder. Unfortunately it’s legit,” one person wrote.