An Australian radio duo have taken to the air live to criticise a celebrity couple after they appeared in the Netflix documentary about Ashley Madison.
In 2015, 37 million people were named and shamed in the Ashley Madison breach after signing up for the notorious affair dating site.
One of them was Sam Radar, a YouTube star who promotes family values who signed up for the site when he was “bored” as a night nurse and new father.
Sam initially denied any involvement with the site and that he had cheated on his wife Nia, but eventually he confessed to his affairs, visits to massage parlors and strip clubs.
And in the shocking interview He admitted that he still thinks about other women, as he did with an Australian radio station.
The Radars, who have four children together, are devout Christians and said on the show that “God’s forgiveness” helped them find a path to marital bliss.
Nia says the decade since the affair scandal has been the best of her married life. Her relationship, including their sex life, is stronger than ever.
However, radio duo Pete and Kymba confronted the couple about their claims that their relationship is solid and questioned why Nia would take back a cheater after he lied about it for so long.
Sam Radar was one of the people named in the 2015 Ashley Madison data breach
Nia forgave her husband – and said she had decided to follow God’s path, which did not involve divorce
“Actions have consequences and I think Nia is a very forgiving person,” Kymba said. “I don’t think you would have been openly honest if you hadn’t been caught.”
In the interview on Mix94.5, Sam openly admitted that he signed up for the cheating site after seeing an ad at work that read, “Life is short, have an affair.”
“I signed up with all my real details, which was a stupid decision. They told me how well protected I was and I trusted that they were keeping a close eye on things,” he said.
He added that registering on the website was the biggest mistake of his life.
“Life was complicated. I had a lot of responsibilities, I hated my job as a nurse and I was looking for something exciting,” he said.
‘Life is short, that’s what I felt involved in. Starting an affair – the answer to this boring, monotonous life.’
It’s been nine years since Sam confessed to his infidelity to Nia and 14 years since he last committed “betrayal.”
Nia decided to put the years of deceit and lies behind her and Kymba became confused.
The radio host asked Nia if she was just so obsessed with her life as a Disney princess that she happily drank the Kool-Aid to “preserve it.”
This angered Sam and he emphasized that everyone makes mistakes and sins. He asked Kymba what made his sin of unfaithfulness and lying worse than her sins.
“There have to be consequences,” Kymba said.
Her co-host defended her position.
“It seems like you’re using God as a scapegoat for all these devilish things you do,” he said.
Nia argued that she thought about leaving Sam if the truth came out, but she had been with him since she was 16 and therefore didn’t want to make a hasty decision.
She said she had consulted the Bible and could find nothing in the religious texts that indicated she should leave her husband because of infidelity.
The couple has been together since Nia was 16 – they have four children and a very popular YouTube channel
The opposite turned out to be true.
“God hates divorce,” she said.
“I wanted to be obedient and couldn’t find peace in my heart by divorcing him,” she said.
The couple added that their 14-year-old daughter, who was just born when her father cheated, is not concerned about his mistakes.
She ‘thanks her mother’ for helping her deal with the betrayal so she could have a ‘whole’ family.
Kymba was concerned about the message Nia and Sam could send to the younger generation with their relationship.
Sam says he still confesses to Nia, after lusting after other women, that “99.99 percent of men” have the same impulses
She said young women need to know that it’s okay to stand up for themselves and end relationships.
Nia claims that their relationship is now transparent and that Sam remains committed to the family.
“Sam showed genuine remorse, a remorse I never expected to see before,” she said.
Sam admitted that he often confesses when he struggles with fidelity, adding that it had been a few months since he last confessed.
He admitted he was attracted to his barista, but said he stopped going to the local cafe when she “gave him a look.”
Kymba wondered if the couple’s success on YouTube and their financial interests might have made it easier to stay together than to leave and rebuild the relationship.
Sam also said that men who don’t admit to having thoughts about other women are lying. He said that 99.99 percent of men like other women.