The 20 cities where couples are most likely to cheat this winter have been named and shamed by a controversial dating website – with Florida topping the rankings.
Ashley Madison, the dating site that focuses on married people and has the slogan ‘Life is short’. Have an affair.’, examined which cities across America have the most registrations per capita.
The site’s chief strategy officer, Paul Keable, said Fox News: ‘It’s a very interesting time of year as we enter winter and what many online daters like to call ‘cuffing season’, where you try to lock down a partner for the colder months.
“We at Ashley Madison wanted to look at our data to see where things are more likely to happen this coming winter.”
The findings show that four of the top 20 cheating hotspots are in Florida, with Miami, Orlando and Tampa ranking first, second and fourth respectively. Last Vegas in Nevada snuck in at number three.
Keable pointed out that the majority of the top cities are in places with warm weather.
“But if you look a little beyond the top five, you’ll see that many winter hotspots and possibly some après-ski areas will be the highlight of activity for many online married daters this winter,” he added.
Keable claimed that the findings also suggested that ‘infidelity and adultery are rampant across the country, with cheating occurring everywhere and everywhere.
The 20 cities where couples are most likely to cheat this winter have been named and shamed by a controversial dating website – with Florida topping the rankings
Ashley Madison , the dating site that targets married people and has the tagline “Life is short.” Have an affair.’, examined which cities across America have the most registrations per capita
Keable further added that Cincinnati, ranked at number five, is a “perfect encapsulation” of why his company exists.
‘You have a number of really top companies operating here. But many workers. And what they are saying to us and to the world is that monogamy may not work for everyone and that we are going to choose a direction and choose Ashley Madison to fulfill what is missing during the cold winter nights. he told Fox News.
The state of Colorado also features prominently on the list, with three cities ranking in the top 20 for cheaters.
Keable claimed the result was no surprise as the state is a popular destination at this time of year, with people ‘enjoying’ winter activities.
Ashley Madison also released a report, Lifting the Veil on Infidelity, which revealed why married people might feel the need to stray into a non-monogamous lifestyle.
The survey found that a total of 16 percent of adult Americans said they had been unfaithful.
The survey also claimed that 67 percent of their members felt they were not sexually satisfied, compared to 30 percent of the general population.
Meanwhile, 41 percent of Ashley Madison members and 29 percent of the general population felt like their needs weren’t being met through affection or attention.
The study also noted that the attitudes of people around the world appear to be changing towards infidelity.
In the United States, 51 percent of men and 44 percent of women said they would forgive a partner for being unfaithful, the survey found.
Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison, said: ‘It’s a really interesting time of year as we head into winter and what many online daters like to call ‘cuffing season’ where you’re trying to lock down a partner for the colder months. months’
“What we really discovered is that both men and women are looking for intimate physical relationships as their primary reason for joining a site like Ashley Madison. It’s not necessarily just because of the excitement or the scandal,” Keable said.
The study found that women feel less shame about infidelity than men (42 percent versus 48 percent), but they are also less likely to forgive a partner if he cheats.
Sex and relationship expert Dr. Tammy Nelson told Ashely Madison that this could be due to different expectations within a marriage, relationship or family.
“As primary caregivers, primary parents, and working parents, women who bear the burden of housework are exhausted and can quickly assess whether their husbands are not being supportive. They may find romantic partnerships less satisfying if their partner refuses to share responsibilities evenly,” she said.
‘Resentment makes for a cool bedroom, and if a partner is having an affair in addition to neglecting the home and children, feelings of abandonment in the home partner can lead to helplessness about the relationship and ultimately divorce. If a spouse is not a good companion, nor sexually contributing, it can be a lose/lose proposition.”
Keable also offered advice to men troubled by the findings.
“Your partner, if she goes out on Friday and Saturday nights without you, and you think she’s with her friends, you might want to check. And perhaps most importantly, have a conversation with her about whether her bedroom needs are being met? Because that’s why women look for partners outside their marriages,” he said.
“So if you don’t want your wife to get with Ashley Madison, not only should you ask her what she wants in the bedroom, but you better figure out a way to do it in a way that more often than not meets her needs suffices,” he says. added.
Infidelity coach Albert Arnaiz claims to have had more than 100 affairs during a serious relationship and revealed to Daily Mail the signs your partner may be cheating
Arnaiz believes that if there were no consequences, up to 80 percent of men and women would fall into non-monogamy.
A serial cheater and infidelity coach, who claimed to have had more than 100 affairs, has previously revealed the warning signs of a cheating partner.
Albert Arnaiz, the author of How to Be Unfaithful Without Getting Caught, said he started his first affair “because I was in a long-term relationship with a partner, and it wasn’t good. I tried to break it off, but we kept going… and I decided to escape, and my way to escape was disloyalty.”
Arnaiz noted the small behavioral changes that usually reveal a cheating partner, such as hiding their phone, clearing their location history, and cleaning up all evidence, including leftover perfume or cologne.
He also claimed that a new interest in the gym, holding more cash than usual, loss of sleep, increased sex drive and even doing more housework could be telltale signs.