Tori Spelling shows off her taut abs days after revealing shock Christmas gun scare at age 19

Tori Spelling showed off her slim and toned stomach while dining at Crossroads Kitchen in Calabasas, California this weekend.

She and a friend ate at the eatery co-owned by Blink-182 drummer Travis Barker.

The Beverly Hills 90210 star, 51, wore a cropped black sweater with a black star on it that showed off her incredibly fit abs.

Tori paired the cute top with green cargo pants and Balenciaga sunglasses.

She wore her hair in an updo, with her curtain bangs alternately hanging down her face and framing the tendrils or tucked behind her ears.

Earlier in the day, Tori and her friend were spotted at the Feature Sneaker boutique where the mother of Liam, 17, Stella, 16, Hattie, 13, Finn, 12, and Beau, seven, appeared to be getting together with her ex-husband Dean McDermott during some Christmas shopping.

The shopping and lunch outing comes after Tori revealed she was shot with a BB gun during the 1992 Hollywood Christmas Parade.

The event took place at the height of her fame on 90210 when she drove the parade in a vintage car with her on-screen boyfriend on the high school drama, Brian Austin Green.

She shared a throwback photo of the two from the event, along with a lengthy caption detailing exactly what happened.

“19 and riding in the Hollywood Christmas Parade with my teenage dream on and off camera @brianaustingreen,” her caption began.

‘I had grown up watching this event on TV and I was beyond excited that Donna and David had been asked to drive through the parade in an antique car. It was 1992 and 90210 was at its peak. It was a great ride until I got shot with a BB gun…

“You didn’t see that coming, did you?” she wrote.

“I remember waving to the crowd as our car drove through the parade and suddenly feeling a hot, sharp pain in my leg. I whispered to Bri, “Omg, I got shot!” he replied in our usual banter, “You’re being dramatic.”

‘Honestly, he knew me well. I had a sense of drama. After all, he’s a teenager, right?,” she continued. “So I dismissed it as my overactive imagination and went back to swinging.”

She continued, “All teenage angst aside, after the parade I checked my jeans and sure enough, there was a burn hole on my top Levi thigh. I was okay with it, the 501s were not.

“Needless to say, it took decades before I could ride in a parade again. But I still love the tradition of watching it on TV every year with my kids. And the whole experience added to my Christmas stories.”

Tori’s terrifying revelation comes after she admitted she felt a lot of guilt with her mother.

During a recent episode of hers Spelling error podcast, Tori explained that she had been working hard on a project for months.

She asked her children to help around the house and regrets that most of that work falls solely on her 16-year-old daughter Stella.

“When I’m at work and I’m gone all day, it’s a big responsibility for my 16-year-old to really supervise the family,” she said. “I feel really guilty when I get home at the end of the day.”

“People have babysitters or nannies or housekeepers or things like that, but we’re just us. I know it’s probably very difficult for the public to understand, but it’s true.

Her guest that day was Dr. Hillary Goldsher, a psychotherapist in Beverly Hills, and Tori took her mother’s guilt to the licensed professional.

‘As a parent, work was financially very stable for a long time. I had multiple shows and multiple product lines and brands and was just a workhorse in an empire.”

‘Then I had four of my children and they couldn’t see another side. They could be living a certain life that I was providing for them through my work, and suddenly things weren’t stable anymore.”

But now, due to the ups and downs of a career in entertainment, her income is “neither financially consistent nor stable.”

“With five children, I feel like I’m sorry. I constantly let them down because my life is not stable. Their lives are not stable,” she argued.

‘I can give love in abundance, but unfortunately they are on this roller coaster with me.

“I’m so used to having such outwardly harsh reactions to my life, no matter what,” the Scary Movie 2 actress said.

“They are on this journey with me and I can’t keep things from them. I have kids old enough to read stuff online. They read the fake stuff, but they read the semi-accurate stuff and they read the real stuff.

“And I’m not saying poor me – here I am defending myself again – but I feel like ever since my soon-to-be ex-husband and I broke up, it’s been fight or flight.”

“It’s been constant with five kids,” the Dancing with the Stars alum continued. “And whether it’s emotional, physical or financial, we’ve just been working on it.”

“When life throws unexpected things at you every day, you think, ‘Oh, I’m past that.’ And then suddenly you have a plan, boom. And it’s day by day.’

Last month, Tori and her kids moved into a $12,000-a-month Calabasas home.

The move comes a year after she lived in an RV park with her five children following her divorce.

She grew up in the $85 million Spelling mansion in the tony Holmby Hills neighborhood of Los Angeles.

Her new home has five bedrooms, four bathrooms and a swimming pool.

The beautiful home is a stark contrast to the RV park in Ventura County where the star and her brood stayed last year amid her financial troubles.