How Dave Grohl’s wife Jordyn feels weeks after secret baby scandal

An insider has shed light on how Dave Grohl’s wife Jordyn Blum is feeling, weeks after the rocker admitted to fathering a secret child outside their marriage.

The 55-year-old Foo Fighters rocker shocked fans in September when he admitted to cheating on Blum, 48, and welcoming a girl with an as-yet-unnamed woman, revealing he was fighting for his wife’s trust regain family.

Jordyn has been married to Dave since 2003 and shares daughters Violet, 18, Harper, 15, and Ophelia, 10, with him.

A resource shared with People that Jordyn has “had time to process everything” since the scandal broke.

“She doesn’t want to make any rash decisions because it all affects their girls,” the insider added.

“She’s still unhappy and not wearing her wedding ring, but things have calmed down,” the source said, adding that Jordyn relied on her friends’ support.

The latest update comes after a source told People that the musician is focused on solving problems with Blum and their three daughters and that a divorce is off the table for the time being.

They said: ‘He is no longer working with a divorce lawyer and is instead hoping to reach a resolution with his wife.’

A second source said the star “loves his family,” adding: “Dave prioritizes his family. He knows he messed up. It’s one of those situations where you don’t realize what you have until you’re about to lose it. He doesn’t want to lose his family.’

Multiple sources claimed Blum had known about the baby “for a while” and said she is a “great mother and very devoted to their daughters.”

The musician announced in a statement on social media on September 10 that he had welcomed a daughter as he vowed to try to ‘get back’. [the] trust’ of his wife and their three daughters.

They share Violet, 18, Harper, 15, and Ophelia, 10,

‘I recently became the father of a new daughter, born outside my marriage. I plan to be a loving and supportive parent to her,” Grohl announced to his 1.4 million followers on Instagram.

“I love my wife and my children, and I am doing everything I can to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness.”

He concluded: “We are grateful for your attention to all the children involved as we move forward together,” he concluded the short post.

Grohl did not share any information about the mother of his fourth child in the post.

Grohl and his wife met in 2001 and have been married since 2003.

Following his announcement that he had fathered a child outside his marriage, his two eldest daughters both deleted their social media accounts.

Days later, his alleged relationship with porn publisher Annaliese Nielsen, 40, was exposed, with her former friends telling DailyMail.com that she had a 15-year affair with the frontman.

Blum reportedly “turned a blind eye” to Grohl’s behavior during their wedding, but she was able to speak out after the latest bombings.

“Close friends believe she turned a blind eye to Dave’s indiscretions for a long time,” the insider said.

“Now that he’s humiliated her in front of the world with his baby bombshell, she can no longer hide behind the facade of a perfect marriage.”

It was also reported that he recently fell out with Blum over her “flirty” relationship with her married tennis coach Christopher Crabb, in what insiders claimed was an attempt to detract from his own indiscretions.

“Dave Grohl has been jealous of Jordyn’s hot tennis coach for a long time,” an insider previously told DailyMail.com.

‘They had a fight about him and Dave thinks they flirted. Jordyn told him he’s crazy to even think that. But Dave persevered.”

His admission of marital infidelity followed an admission to The Guardian in 2007 that he had also cheated on his first wife, Jennifer Leigh Youngblood.

The two married in 1994 but had separated by 1996, divorcing the following year.

The rock star, who is often described as a “family man,” has spoken about the importance of his family in interviews over the years.

In the same Guardian interview, Grohl said: ‘[My wife] Jordyn and [daughter] Violet are anchors that keep me from disappearing completely.”

In 2012, he told TIME that his family “has changed everything I do.”

He added: “It has changed everything I do. When you have children, you see life through different eyes. You feel the love more deeply and may be a little more compassionate. It’s inevitable that that will end up in your songwriting.’

Although little is publicly known about Blum, People reported that she once appeared on the cover of Teen – after being discovered in a supermarket at the age of 12.

Blum was reportedly working as a producer at MTV when she met the frontman.

But Grohl told Elle in 2007 that he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship when they first met, and stopped calling Blum after a few dates.

He said: ‘After three months I had an epiphany and called her back. She picked up the phone and said, “Oh, I never thought I’d hear from you again.”

Meanwhile, his band, Foo Fighters, is reportedly ‘taking a break’ amid his affair scandal.