OnlyFans sex mum Lola Blake on how porn saved her marriage

An Australian mom who now earns up to $50,000 a month on OnlyFans says filming herself and her husband having sex and sharing with strangers saved her marriage.

Lola Blake, 28, and her husband Andrew, 32, had a non-existent sex life for two years when their relationship broke up.

So in a last-ditch effort to spice things up a bit, they decided to take pictures and film themselves in the bedroom.

Initially, it was not the intention to publish the material. But Lola thought she would try it on the adult platform and see if she would attract followers.

The couple did attract followers, who needed content. Their romantic life took off again, with the couple having sex from once every few months to every day.

It didn’t take long for Lola to get pregnant either – and they made enough money to quit their jobs.

Now the passion is back and the couple is closer than ever.

Lola laughs at how far she and Andrew have come when they saw the movie Sex Tape ten years ago on their very first date.

“Our first date we had was going to the cinema to see the movie sex tape, which is about a man and woman who film themselves to spice up their sex lives,” she told FEMAIL.

“We look back on it now and think it’s so funny, because then we could never have imagined we’d be where we are today.”

But being on OnlyFans doesn’t come without its challenges, with Lola admitting she’s faced judgment from friends, family and trolls online.

Now she wants everyone to know that sex workers aren’t like the ones portrayed in old movies waiting to be “saved,” but real people with different circumstances and lucrative careers — and moms can be sexy, too.

‘I’m not the stereotype of what people think a sex worker is. We’ve moved on from the time Pretty Woman came out in theaters — we’re not all waiting for a rich man to save us,” Lola said.

“We choose this life and it’s not the easy way out that some people think. Dealing with this hatred, judgment and exclusion takes a mental toll, but the benefits outweigh the drawbacks ten times over.”

For the haters, Lola just advises people not to watch and mind their own business.

“If you don’t agree with it, just don’t look at it. It’s not like we’re pushing it in people’s faces, it’s behind a paywall, so the only way to see it is if you look for it,” she said.

“I bet the majority of people who disagree have watched adult content before, so it’s hypocrisy at its best.”

She planned to quit OnlyFans not just during her pregnancy, but for a year after that, just a few weeks after she gave birth, things started to turn sour.

Andrew was back at work full-time after two weeks of paternity leave and she was left without the support of friends and family after the death of her adoptive parents.

“I felt very isolated and was jealous that he could take a break from parenting even though he had to go to a job he hated,” she said.

“The resentment grew on both sides, we both thought the other had the better deal. This led to little fights and distance, which I’m sure many new parents can too.’

The new parents decided to jump back on OnlyFans in January 2021 in the hope of generating a healthy income with the education of their child.

“We got a taste of the income OnlyFans could provide and with my background with a degree in marketing and my husband’s background in sales, we knew we could build this into a sustainable and profitable business,” said Lola.

“We were consistently making $3,000 a week as an afterthought for three months. Then we knew that if we put more effort into creating and promoting content, we could go even further.”

Not only did they start earning enough for Andrew to quit his job and for Lola to not have to go back to a nine-to-five job, the company, but rekindled their relationship.

“We spend every day working together, raising our child with equal dedication to the household, there is no more resentment,” she said.

“We get excited about work and not just from the physical side, we like the business mindset and the drive for success and abundance to create our dream life for our family.”

There were some funny moments when Lola said she had some unusual requests from customers but remains “open minded” and happy to comply.

“The strangest request I ever had was a subscriber who wanted me to pretend to be pasta so he could pretend to eat me. I think it’s called a ‘transformation fetish,’ she laughed.

In her best month working with a major maker, Lola made $50,000 and now has a healthy trust fund set aside for her son.

Lola said she’ll eventually be honest with her now two-year-old when he’s of an appropriate age, but admits she’ll likely be retired by then.

“I also hope to buy an investment property next year so that he will be on the property market by the time he turns 18,” she said.

He also grew up in a kind, loving and non-judgmental household. If you found out your mother was a playboy in the 1970s, would you judge her if you remember those supportive and loving childhoods?’