I’ve slept with some of Australia’s biggest celebrities – these are the biggest bedroom lies people tell you and the secret to maximum pleasure

EXCLUSIVE

One of Australia's most popular male escorts has used his extensive lovemaking knowledge to debunk some major bedroom myths.

Harry Belmont, a Sydney sex worker originally from Britain, has a clientele that includes some of Australia's most popular primetime TV stars.

In an exclusive interview, the Sexyland The 34-year-old ambassador warned women not to believe everything they hear about sex and instead embrace his expert advice.

'For too many people, the joy of sex is limited by things we've heard about what sex should be like. If you don't talk, myths become false truths that you harbor in your head,' Harry said.

The first myth is that adult toys don't make sex better.

Harry Belmont, one of Australia's most popular male escorts, has used his extensive lovemaking knowledge to debunk some major bedroom myths

'Sex toys are great for sex. They are nice. They increase the pleasure. They change things,” the part-time stripper explained.

'Toys are not about achieving what a man cannot do. They are about increasing the pleasure of achieving what men can do,” he noted.

Harry also hit back at the myth that women don't enjoy sex as much as men, calling it a “very dated, stereotypical idea that is not based in fact and is potentially harmful.”

In an exclusive interview, the Sexyland ambassador warned women not to believe everything they hear about sex, and instead embrace his expert advice

Harry also hit back at the myth that women don't enjoy sex as much as men, calling it a “very dated, stereotypical idea that is not based in fact and is potentially harmful.”

'My experience is that women enjoy sex just as much as men. This is coming from a male escort. Again, communication, understanding and mutual respect are the key and foundation for that enjoyment,” he emphasized.

Harry also dispelled the misconception that the term 'sex' only refers to penetration, explaining that it actually refers to a range of intimate activities – including the use of adult toys.

'Treat sex toys as your friends, not as your competition. I often hear, 'I don't need a sex toy, I am enough,'” he said.

“Hearing this, I can almost guarantee that sex toys aren't even a topic that's ever been brought up and people feel uncomfortable talking about them. Do not do that.'

Harry also threw cold water on the myth that women usually only climax through sex.

“Sure, that happens in movies, porn and erotic books, but this is fiction, not reality,” he said.

'It's completely normal for women to need external stimulation. It's nothing a woman or her partner is doing wrong.”

Harry also threw cold water on the myth that women usually only climax through sex

Finally, Harry put to rest the widespread misconception that condoms reduce sexual pleasure for men.

'In my opinion, one of the most widespread myths is that condoms can often improve the sexual experience by adding novelty and excitement to sex through the use of ribbed, dotted or flavored condoms.'

'Look around at different shapes and sizes to find out which ones are right for both you and your partner. Not only this, but knowing you are safe from unwanted pregnancies and STDs will reduce anxiety and stress for both parties, both during sex and afterwards.'