Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT the real reason she split with Ted Harbert: ‘That didn’t happen’

Chelsea Handler made it clear why her four-year relationship with Ted Harbert really ended in 2010 – four months after she hinted that threesomes could have been the catalyst for the split.

The 48-year-old comedian lightheartedly mentioned the 68-year-old former CEO of Comcast Entertainment Group by name as she recalled how they had a ménage à trois with their female masseuse, whom she was “very turned on” in bed.

“I ended up hooking up with her several times without the guy I was dating. That’s when I knew it was time to break up with the guy,” Chelsea candidly admitted on Andy Cohen’s broadcast. SiriusXM performance on June 8.

“I don’t think I ever revealed that (to him). Hopefully he’s listening now. His name is Ted Harbert.’

Handler joked that she likes threesomes with a woman and a man instead of two men because “she can do all the things I’m too lazy to do.”

Chelsea Handler made it clear why her four-year relationship with Ted Harbert really ended in 2010 - four months after she hinted threesomes could have been the catalyst for the breakup (pictured in 2007)

Chelsea Handler made it clear why her four-year relationship with Ted Harbert really ended in 2010 – four months after she hinted threesomes could have been the catalyst for the breakup (pictured in 2007)

Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

The 48-year-old comedian lightheartedly mentioned the 68-year-old former CEO of Comcast Entertainment Group by name as she recalled how they had a ménage à trois with their female masseuse, whom she was “very turned on” in bed

The Grammy Award nominee’s TMI comments managed to upset Harbert — who remains “a very dear friend of mine” — and he messaged her: “That wasn’t cool.” Please don’t do that again. Some things are better left private.’

“I want to make it clear that this is not the reason why our relationship ended,” Chelsea announced on Wednesday’s episode of The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon.

“We’ve had a lot of threesomes – and even if it’s private, it’s already there, so I’m going to emphasize that again – and just say we didn’t break up because I left him for the masseuse. That didn’t happen.’

Handler jokingly added, “I had so many people come up to me and say, ‘Wow, that gave Ted Harbert a lot of reputation. Who would have thought he had a threesome?’ So I just want to say he was!’

In 2012, the New Jersey-born blonde said she stopped dating the native New Yorker because the two couldn’t separate business from pleasure.

“I’d come home from work and Ted would say, ‘Do you want to watch your show?’ said Chelsea Marie Claire.

‘And I’d say, “No, I just got off my show. That’s the last thing I would want to do.” That was ultimately the reason it didn’t work. I think.’

The Dear Chelsea podcaster didn’t start dating Ted — who oversaw all programming on E! — until she was already hosting The Chelsea Handler Show for the cable network “contrary to popular belief.”

And while Harbert has been married to former HR director Lisa Medrano for the past 12 years, Handler has romanced comedian Jo Koy, chef Bobby Flay, hotelier André Balazs, rapper 50 Cent and comedian David Alan Grier.

The Daily Show guest host brings her 37-date Little Big B**** Tour to the Kennedy Center in Washington, DC this Friday.

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1696573459 653 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

Chelsea candidly confessed on Andy Cohen’s SiriusXM show on June 8, “I ended up hooking up with her several times without the guy I was dating.” That’s when I knew it was time to break up with the guy. I don’t think I ever revealed that (to him). Hopefully he’s listening now. His name is Ted Harbert’

1696573462 127 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

1696573462 127 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

Handler joked that she likes threesomes with a woman and a man instead of two men because “she can do all the things I’m too lazy to do”

1696573464 900 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

1696573464 900 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

The Grammy Award nominee’s TMI comments managed to upset Harbert — who remains “a very dear friend of mine” — and he messaged her: “That wasn’t cool.” Please don’t do that again. Some things are better left private’ (pictured in 2008)

1696573467 272 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

1696573467 272 Chelsea Handler now says her masseuse threesome partner was NOT

Chelsea announced on Wednesday’s episode of The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon: “I want to make it clear that that is not the reason why our relationship ended.”

Handler continued, “We've had a lot of threesomes — and even though that's private, it's already out there, so I'm going to double down on that — and just say we didn't break up because I left him for the masseuse.  That didn't happen'

Handler continued, “We've had a lot of threesomes — and even though that's private, it's already out there, so I'm going to double down on that — and just say we didn't break up because I left him for the masseuse.  That didn't happen'

Handler continued, “We’ve had a lot of threesomes — and even though that’s private, it’s already out there, so I’m going to double down on that — and just say we didn’t break up because I left him for the masseuse. That didn’t happen’

The New Jersey-born blonde jokingly added, “So many people came up to me and said, "Wow, that gave Ted Harbert a lot of fame.  Who knew he had a threesome?" So I just want to say he was!'

The New Jersey-born blonde jokingly added, “So many people came up to me and said, "Wow, that gave Ted Harbert a lot of fame.  Who knew he had a threesome?" So I just want to say he was!'

The New Jersey-born blonde jokingly added, “I had so many people come up to me and say, ‘Wow, that gave Ted Harbert a lot of fame. Who would have thought he had a threesome?’ So I just want to say he was!’

All work, no play?  In 2012, Chelsea said she stopped dating the New York native because the two couldn't separate business from pleasure (pictured in 2008)

All work, no play?  In 2012, Chelsea said she stopped dating the New York native because the two couldn't separate business from pleasure (pictured in 2008)

All work, no play? In 2012, Chelsea said she stopped dating the New York native because the two couldn’t separate business from pleasure (pictured in 2008)

'Contrary to popular belief': The Dear Chelsea podcaster did not start dating Ted — who oversaw all programming on E!  — until she was already hosting The Chelsea Handler Show for the cable network

'Contrary to popular belief': The Dear Chelsea podcaster did not start dating Ted — who oversaw all programming on E!  — until she was already hosting The Chelsea Handler Show for the cable network

‘Contrary to popular belief’: The Dear Chelsea podcaster did not start dating Ted — who oversaw all programming on E! — until she was already hosting The Chelsea Handler Show for the cable network

World travelers!  And although Harbert has been married to former HR director Lisa Medrano (L, photo August 20) for the past twelve years, Handler has romanced Jo Koy, Bobby Flay, André Balazs, 50 Cent and David Alan Grier

World travelers!  And although Harbert has been married to former HR director Lisa Medrano (L, photo August 20) for the past twelve years, Handler has romanced Jo Koy, Bobby Flay, André Balazs, 50 Cent and David Alan Grier

World travelers! And although Harbert has been married to former HR director Lisa Medrano (L, photo August 20) for the past twelve years, Handler has romanced Jo Koy, Bobby Flay, André Balazs, 50 Cent and David Alan Grier

'Out of stock!'  The Daily Show guest host brings her 37-date Little Big B**** Tour to the Kennedy Center in Washington, DC this Friday (photo Sunday)

'Out of stock!'  The Daily Show guest host brings her 37-date Little Big B**** Tour to the Kennedy Center in Washington, DC this Friday (photo Sunday)

‘Out of stock!’ The Daily Show guest host brings her 37-date Little Big B**** Tour to the Kennedy Center in Washington, DC this Friday (photo Sunday)