Bachelor In Paradise’s Jade Roper says she is trying to ‘get to the other side of this loss’ after undergoing surgery for missed miscarriage: ‘It is time to heal’

Bachelor In Paradise star Jade Roper revealed she’s trying to “get to the other side of this loss” after a missed miscarriage.

On Tuesday, the 36-year-old reality star announced to her more than 1.3 million Instagram followers that she had undergone surgery, despite her attempts to avoid surgery.

‘Well, here we are. I didn’t want or expect it to be like this, but it is. I wanted so badly to bury him under a beautiful tree in our garden, just to get a glimpse of his little body. That’s why I’ve held on for so long in an effort to trust my body,” she captioned a photo of herself lying in a hospital. stretcher.

She continued, “But it’s time to heal and see this loss on the other side. I’ve tried to protect my peace and respect my baby, so I’ve just shared bits and pieces here and there to hopefully help someone else feel less alone if they’re going through this.”

Speaking to others who have experienced pregnancy loss and infertility, the Colorado native said, “I see you, I feel your pain, and I love you.”

The mother-of-three, who is married to Tanner Tolbert, also wrote a heartfelt message to her unborn son Beau, whom she carried for “almost five months.”

“I carry you with me everywhere and always in my heart,” she concluded.

She later revealed that she was “rested” at home and felt “heartbroken yet peaceful.”

While snuggled up in bed, the TV personality wore a blue crew neck sweatshirt, from Taylor Swift’s The Eras Tour, and a white hospital bracelet on her wrist.

The devastating update comes after Roper was rushed to the ER after feeling “terrible” and requiring “statistics blood work and an ultrasound.”

At the time, she told her fans that she was still “experiencing a missed miscarriage” and that her body was “not letting go of the pregnancy.”

“I’m a little worried about an infection, so here we are,” Jade explained why she went to the hospital.

Please respect my choice to try to go this route naturally, I appreciate all the love and support. Reading your kind words really helps me get through the more difficult parts of this process.”

A missed miscarriage occurs when “the baby has died or failed to develop, but did not have a physical miscarriage,” according to the Miscarriage Association.

The reality star added more text to the bottom of the image, explaining, “I looked up and Tanner told me to smile. He’s trying to make me laugh today to keep our condition a little lighter with everything that’s going on.”

Jade married Tolbert in 2016 and the couple currently share three children: Emmy, six, Brooks, four, and two-year-old Reed.

Concluding her update, Roper typed in the top right corner, “Also think I’ve worn these four days of this week so far,” referring to her comfy ensemble.

Her visit to the ER comes shortly after she announced to her fans and followers on Aug. 13 that she had suffered a missed miscarriage and tragically lost her baby boy.

She shared a photo of herself rocking her belly and wrote in the caption, “I’ve been struggling with what to write here while going through a miscarriage.”

“It felt like all my dreams came true to welcome another baby into our lives, to love and complete our family.”

“While our hearts are completely broken and we have dealt with the deep and complex grief of the loss, we are blessed to have been touched by his soul during his short time. I’m forever changed,” Jade added emotionally.

She went on to explain, “I’m currently experiencing what’s called a missed miscarriage, so even though his heart has stopped and he’s stopped growing (for a while), my body hasn’t released the pregnancy yet.”

“I hope to do this naturally and trust the timing and my body under the care of my healthcare provider.”

Roper said, “I’ve worn him with so much pride and cherish every moment that remains with a part of him, but it’s also been just as challenging and devastating.”

Concluding her heartbreaking message, the star wrote, “So as I hold my belly here, our sweet baby’s body rests in my womb while his soul floats. We love you with every piece of our heart, baby Beau. ❤️.’

Social media users and celebrities alike jumped to the comment section to send their love and support to Jade and her family.

Vanderpump Rules star Stassi Schroeder typed, “I’m so sorry ❤️,” while Jade’s husband, Tanner, also replied with a red heart emoji.

Katie Thurston, the Bachelorette alumnus, wrote, “Sending extra love to you and your family. Your allowing us into your life at this time has an impact on so many and I hope you are surrounded with nothing but love and support during this time. ❤️.’

Jade uploaded two other images in the photo series as she revealed the devastating news.

The mother-of-three shared a close-up image of her belly with hands gently resting on hers, and also included a computer sonogram of their infant son.

Roper and Tolbert crossed paths during the second season of Bachelor In Paradise and got engaged in the same season. The following year, in January 2016, the two lovebirds said yes.