Woman, 29, reveals she made her husband shield his eyes during EVERY nude scene in Oppenheimer after he left her suffering from ‘betrayal trauma’ by secretly watching PORN
A woman has revealed that she had her husband cover his eyes during every nude scene in Oppenheimer after he left her with a “betrayal trauma” from watching porn.
Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia, has taken to TikTok candidly to reveal how she researched the blockbuster ahead of time to “have a game plan” with her partner.
The 29-year-old, who works as a photographer, forced him to close his eyes and rest his head on her shoulder during the film’s sex scenes with Florence Pugh.
Jourdan had previously spoken out about suffering “trauma” after finding out her husband of nine years had watched porn – but said he’s been “sober” for 10 months since then.
Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia, has taken to TikTok candidly to reveal how she researched the blockbuster ahead of time to “have a game plan” with her partner
The 29-year-old candidly revealed: I research everything before we watch it, but especially this film’
Jourdan, who works as a photographer, forced him to close his eyes and rest his head on her shoulder during the film’s sex scenes with Florence Pugh
In her clip about Oppenheimer, which has been viewed more than 316,000 times to date, Jourdan responds to a user’s comment asking for advice for a couple who “want to see Oppenheimer but are completely scared of the Florence Pugh scene where everyone talking about’.
To which she begins, “Okay, so I research everything before we watch it, but especially this movie.
“Of course I heard about it, yes we wanted to see it, it has a great rating.
‘We have prepared. I didn’t know when the scene would take place, nor did I understand how the scene played out. I thought it was only a few minutes at a time…”
Jourdan utters the word “sex” rather than verbalizing it, before continuing: “But it wasn’t, it was actually broken up like it would be a flash of that and then it would be a flash of normal life and then it would be a flash of the scene.
“It was very back and forth, so it was very hard to avoid it.”
She said she and her husband talk about everything and form a “game plan,” including concerts and events.
Jourdan then continued, “So essentially what we did was when the scene happened, when things happened, he literally closed his eyes and put his head on my shoulder… And then I just let him know when it was over.” used to be. ‘
Other social media users were quick to flock to the comments section to share their own thoughts on the bizarre arrangement — and they didn’t hold back
She concluded, “I’ll tell you now that it didn’t take anything away from the story. His not looking at the screen didn’t change the storyline, didn’t change anything.’
Other social media users were quick to flock to the comments section to share their own thoughts on the bizarre arrangement — and they didn’t hold back.
One of them wrote, “It’s dysfunctional not to be able to see scenes like this.”
Another added: “It’s definitely not that important.”
And a third asked, “Why is this a problem for couples at all?!”
Despite the backlash, Jourdan uploaded another clip to the video-sharing platform a few days later to reveal she was suffering from “betrayal trauma.”
She told her followers, “I went through a betrayal trauma ten months ago after nine years of marriage, ten years in a completely monogamous relationship.
“I was completely convinced that he wasn’t looking at other women, he wasn’t satisfying himself to other women, porn was the furthest thing I could think of.
“I never thought or believed he used porn but he was and I found out on September 17, 2022. That was the hardest day of my life. It was the hardest weeks and months of my life.”
Despite the backlash, Jourdan uploaded another clip to the video-sharing platform a few days later to reveal she was suffering from “betrayal trauma”
Jourdan continued, “Trauma of betrayal has changed me as a person inside and out.
“It has caused me a lot of stress. It hurt me a lot. It made me sick. It helped me through depression. Gave me a lot of stress and a lot of anxiety.
“I’ve come a long way in my healing… I’m still with my husband and I’m so happy and I’m so thankful and I’m so proud to say he’s been sober for 10 months.
“He’s done all the steps, all the work, everything it takes to not only change, stay sober and achieve a long-term recovery, but also reassure me that he’s creating a safe space, he’s becoming a trustworthy person and he show me the signals I need through his actions, his behaviors and his patterns that he is moving in the right direction.”
She concluded by saying, “I’m very happy with how far I’ve come,” before offering help to other men and women who were going through similar experiences.