The three huge mistakes people make which ruin their first impressions body language date
The three big mistakes that destroy your first impression in seconds – and how to make a great one every time
- You are not allowed to cross your arms while hosting
- You should also not ‘stretched out’ on the couch
A body language expert has revealed the three things not to do when meeting someone for the first time, especially when you’re at home.
From stretching out on the couch to sitting on the edge of your seat – there are some common mistakes people make when they have someone over for the first time.
Adrianne Carter revealed the top three after searches for “at home date night” skyrocketed on Google and TikTok.
Adrianne said the most important thing was to be aware of how your body language might make others feel.
We all know the saying “sharing is caring”. The key to getting this right is to be considerate and kind to the other person first, then go easy on yourself by following their lead,” she said.
You should never cross your arms or legs or sit on the edge of your seat when trying to make a good first impression
Never cross your arms and legs
Folding your arms can make you look closed or defensive, she explained.
“If you’re in a new relationship or just dating someone, it’s important to keep your body language as positive as possible,” she said.
In practice, this means keeping your arms and legs uncrossed, even though it’s a comfortable position to sit in.
“You want to make it clear that you’re happy to be there,” she added.
It’s not ideal to sit on the couch when you first meet someone in your home
Don’t stretch out on the couch
While it’s good to appear relaxed, especially on a date, sprawling on the couch may be “too much too soon.”
“Yes, spreading out on the cushions is one of the most comfortable ways to sit, but you have to respect other people’s space,” she said.
“They may not immediately feel so relaxed next to you and want to get used to it at their own pace. Let them choose a nice spot before you plop yourself on the couch.’
Don’t sit on the edge of your seat
While stretching out on the couch is a no-go, it’s important not to stretch too far the other way either, because you’ll come across as tense or nervous, she added.
So, while being on the edge of your seat may seem like the most polite option (especially if you’re in their house), this kind of body language makes it seem like you want to escape quickly or not. stay long,” she said.
Sink into the cushions and feel more comfortable in your surroundings.
Adrianne’s tips were presented by DFSBritish furniture suppliers.