Ben Ofoedu hits back after his ex Vanessa Feltz admitted to faking orgasms

Ben Ofoedu fired back after his ex-fiancée Vanessa Feltz admitted that she sometimes fakes orgasms in a candid confession.

The singer, 50, responded to his very intimate comments in a light-hearted Instagram video shared on the platform on Tuesday.

It came a day after it emerged that Vanessa, 61, said that sometimes you have to pretend to “be polite” during a podcast appearance recorded before their split.

In response to his comments, Ben took to social media to post a video of himself taking a walk in nature, sporting a black puffer jacket and blue sunglasses.

In the short clip, Ben responded to her comments with a smile on his face, saying, ‘Oh! So now you’re faking?

Responding: Ben Ofoedu responded after his ex-fiancée Vanessa Feltz admitted that he sometimes fakes orgasms in a candid confession

Strike back: The singer, 50, responded to his very intimate comments in a light-hearted Instagram video shared on the platform on Tuesday

Strike back: The singer, 50, responded to his very intimate comments in a light-hearted Instagram video shared on the platform on Tuesday

He continued to laugh before adding, “Have a great day.”

Vanessa broke up with her ex classmate of 16 years Ben last month after he confessed to cheating on her during their relationship.

Appearing on the Grazia Life Advice podcast while she was still with Ben, Vanessa said it’s “rude” not to fake it if your partner is “trying every trick in the book.”

Revealing the worst advice she’s ever been given, she told the podcast: ‘Experts say if you fake an orgasm, how will your lover/partner really know what you like? So they never will.

“I think that’s the worst advice because sometimes it’s rude not to pretend.

‘Sometimes your partner is trying every trick in the book. They have been playing, licking and wiggling. They are absolutely 10/10 for effort.

She added: “I’m not saying you do it every time, but on those occasions when you’re not concentrating and thinking about defrosting the freezer and you’re never going to get there, you have to pretend, it’s just polite.”

“Everyone is saving face and no one is embarrassed or embarrassed.”

Candid: It came a day after it emerged that Vanessa, 61, said that sometimes you have to pretend to

Candid: It came a day after it emerged that Vanessa, 61, said that sometimes you have to pretend to “be polite” during a podcast appearance recorded before their split.

Vanessa also recently opened up about her split from Ben, admitting that life hasn’t been “easy” since.

He shared a video on Instagram on Monday where he revealed that he “can’t sleep in the middle of the night” but hopes it gets better.

While enjoying dinner at the Brasserie Of Light restaurant in London’s Selfridges, a friend asked her: ‘Vanessa, you look great, but how do you really feel?’

After showing an emotional expression, she replied, ‘Well, no one said it was going to be easy and I must say that it’s actually not easy, especially in the middle of the night when I can’t sleep and all.

“But I keep going and I have many, many friends and family around me and I love that.

“I guess every day I hope it gets a little easier, but thanks for asking.”

Vanessa announced that she split with her partner of 16 years last month amid claims that he had been unfaithful while touring UK holiday parks with his electronic dance music act, which she later confirmed.

The woman with whom Ben reportedly went missing told MailOnline how she sent Vanessa an explosive email, followed by an “awkward” phone call, in which she denounced Ben’s “serial womanizing”.

Ben’s adventure told Vanessa had been ‘hopelessly in love’ with him after a series of torrid encounters in Ibiza and thailand.

But she insisted that the BBC Radio 2 presenter deserved to know that her partner had tried to seduce at least three other younger women.

The successful businesswoman, who looks a lot like Vanessa, said she initially had no idea Ben had a long-term partner when she began her affair with him, and broke off the relationship as soon as she found out.

But beach club owner and restaurateur Ella, 59, who did not wish to use her real name, described him as “an octopus who has no respect for women” and said she wanted to set the record straight after he ” spread lies” about their year-long affair.

After the email, Ella and Vanessa had a ‘difficult’ phone conversation during which Vanessa told her that what she and Ofoedu had done was ‘very wrong’.

In the email, Ella wrote to Vanessa: “I was aware of his relationship with you and I felt very guilty, but he haunted me so much that I couldn’t resist his charm.”

Breakup: Vanessa split from her ex-partner of 16 years Ben last month after he confessed to cheating on her during their relationship.

Breakup: Vanessa split from her ex-partner of 16 years Ben last month after he confessed to cheating on her during their relationship.

“I was terrified sending that email,” Ella said, “and even more terrified when Vanessa called me back.”

“I completely understood his anger at me and I certainly didn’t snap back at him, but it was a very uncomfortable conversation,” he added.

Despite the revelations about Ben’s behavior in the email and phone call, Vanessa apparently decided to forgive him.

However, earlier this month, Vanessa announced that she had finally called it quits after a series of other illicit relationships surfaced.